I Miss The Old Boluwa, Where's The Magic?

Hello Everyone, 

 Trust you are well. 

 Gentle reminder on the approval of the June content calender, we need to kick off this week.

Best Regards....

I usually have everything all planned out, but the kind of turn my life took in May 2018, really surprised me. 

Let's do a quick recap;

I have finally spent one year at a job! - It's the little things

I'm single - Men are what? ----

I recovered from chicken pox only to have skin infection after - No more Black Girl Magic!

My Office moved to VI - Lagos 1 - Boluwa 0. 

My Dad is turning 70 - Small Girl, Old Dad 


You see, the last 2 months have been the worst yet, in my entire life, there's no more black girl magic. I know it will pass, I know I will look back and laugh, I overcome, It's a my trait, but damn girl! can't things get better? I have suffered in this life, what is it?

I have had the hardest time with my relationships, work is so interesting and fulfilling but there are logistics factors limiting me, I'm having the worst time with my skin, it's hard times for me.

Writing on this blog will always suffer if nothing else does. Because it's not bringing in the bulk of the money or any at all, I have plans make this platform bigger. I consume a lot of content now, I have grown as a person, I have gotten better and I really want to share what I have learnt.  I will do better, this H2 is my time to shine!

I will do more, I will do better, just give me time.







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