Boluwa The Voice

I'm not even lying, I wrote a post 2-3 nights ago as I was about to copy it to my blog I deleted it... a nice post on girls born in the 90s (They are dangerous). So, that's not why I haven't posted in a month, it's because I have nothing to post and also no laptop. Well in all fairness Tayo got me her laptop to use and I still didn't write - but I watched Power (counts for something) I decided that some photos will go with the previous blog post I lost. So, I'll just post them anyways! I'll try and post every week this month. Here are some photos of me...

In no particular order, I present to you my Christmas wishlist. 1. Mamicoco --D'appointment set 2. Clear Shoes 3. iPhone 7 matter black / jet black - I know I just got a new phone but it's not bad to want 4. All expense paid trip to a Nice African country (Kenya , Tanzania , Ghana) 5. Nutri bullet smoothie blender 6. Purple running shoes 7. Yoga mat 8. Fur Skirt From 24th styling 9. Fully stocked make up kit 10 . Bag full of cash 11. Spa day 12. Baby curls wig. 13 . New MacBook Air I start accepting gifts immediately - Thanks. P.S - List can and will be edited as I like.

I didn't know anyone was reading - sorry the second part came so late. If you missed the first part continue here . From where I stopped last week ; After the conversation I was very hurt, heart broken and demoralized. So he wants to have good sex? And we both know it won't be with me. I was hurt, but I know it would hurt more if I  actually have sex with him now because I'm not ready. Well, me I told him my mind is not ready and he promised to wait. He said he thought it was easy - THE CELIBACY THING! I was just mute then he said "if you are not ready, it's fine I u nderstand. " So in my head, I'm thinking this is probably emotional blackmail, and like a gateway for him to cheat on me. But remember how I said I love this person? He makes everything better again by reassuring me, he promised not to cheat and said he already made this commitment and will stick to it. Then he ruined everything by saying he would rather allo...

Memoirs of a 21-year-old virgin went on a break for a while, probably because my lovely writer didn't have anything interesting to write about. Well, that is about to change there might be a little trouble in paradise .  So I have  been dating my present boyfriend for a year and some months. I have said this before and I'll say it again, I'm genuinely  happy with him I  feel inner happiness and I feel sparks fly.  Before we started dating I opened up to him (as I should) and I explained my decision  to keep myself till marriage then he said he's willing to wait.  I'm not going to even pretend like I want to have sex, I'm not ready - physically and mentally. I don't think I am a prude, we cuddle and kiss,  but I have never felt the urge to have sex.   He has seen me naked, it's not even a religious thing, I'm just not ready for sex and now I'm feeling like I should be.   I was playing house at his place, sometime last year...

Betty is back this week and she wants you to learn how to handle non-committal men and why they are the way they are.  Typically a guy meets a girl, there's mutual attraction, they start seeing each other and doing all couple like stuff together, although they didn't label the relationship based on previous agreement and understanding, a couple of months go by and mostly because a girl is only human she starts craving and wanting an actual relationship, then the typical non-committal guy would say "We are better like this, I’m just not relationship ready, but we could still keep seeing each other". Well I'm imagining that's what could be said, those aren't actual words as said by anyone. He doesn't want a relationship but he wants you around? The idea of that keeps messing with the psyche of most females out there and they start thinking, "oh maybe I can change him, maybe I can make him change his mind, maybe I'd up my sex game, b...

Hi guys, I'd like to apologize for my absence on the blog for two weeks now. I've been having so much fun that I got carried away but anyway my fun came to an end today and the funniest thing happened to me (not funny in any way) but I'm grateful it's something I can reflect on and thank God for every now and then. In other news I had an intervention from God today and it got me wondering about lot of things that I've taken for granted but I should really be thankful and grateful for.  I'd confess that I've been living life on a very fast lane as a form of distraction for a while now that I've almost forgotten the essence of the little things that add values and meaning to life as we live through it. I don't want to come here and start giving you long speeches or sub stories about my challenges and struggles in life or reasons as to why I've taken things with typical regularity but I'd really urge those of you in dark phases or seasons o...

If you missed Betty’s Banter Last week check here . How soon is too soon to have sex with your (new) partner? This is a controversial question that lingers through the minds of most females; we bother with what's the appropriate time to give it up to a guy after meeting him. We want to apply the dating rules that in my opinion are mostly generated based on our antiquated mindset. For the purpose of this write up I’d be dwelling on the controversial topic of not having sex on the first date. It was frowned upon in the old days to have sex on the first date but times are changing and some of the dating rules should not even be applicable, having sex on the first date should cause little or no uproar at all. It bothers me why sexual liberated females would subject themselves to fear of judgement by their partner following sex on the first date. He likes you enough to ask you out on a date and at a point in his mind he would have considered a million ways to bend you...