Boluwa The Voice

Betty is back this week and she wants you to learn how to handle non-committal men and why they are the way they are.  Typically a guy meets a girl, there's mutual attraction, they start seeing each other and doing all couple like stuff together, although they didn't label the relationship based on previous agreement and understanding, a couple of months go by and mostly because a girl is only human she starts craving and wanting an actual relationship, then the typical non-committal guy would say "We are better like this, I’m just not relationship ready, but we could still keep seeing each other". Well I'm imagining that's what could be said, those aren't actual words as said by anyone. He doesn't want a relationship but he wants you around? The idea of that keeps messing with the psyche of most females out there and they start thinking, "oh maybe I can change him, maybe I can make him change his mind, maybe I'd up my sex game, b...

Hi guys, I'd like to apologize for my absence on the blog for two weeks now. I've been having so much fun that I got carried away but anyway my fun came to an end today and the funniest thing happened to me (not funny in any way) but I'm grateful it's something I can reflect on and thank God for every now and then. In other news I had an intervention from God today and it got me wondering about lot of things that I've taken for granted but I should really be thankful and grateful for.  I'd confess that I've been living life on a very fast lane as a form of distraction for a while now that I've almost forgotten the essence of the little things that add values and meaning to life as we live through it. I don't want to come here and start giving you long speeches or sub stories about my challenges and struggles in life or reasons as to why I've taken things with typical regularity but I'd really urge those of you in dark phases or seasons o...

If you missed Betty’s Banter Last week check here . How soon is too soon to have sex with your (new) partner? This is a controversial question that lingers through the minds of most females; we bother with what's the appropriate time to give it up to a guy after meeting him. We want to apply the dating rules that in my opinion are mostly generated based on our antiquated mindset. For the purpose of this write up I’d be dwelling on the controversial topic of not having sex on the first date. It was frowned upon in the old days to have sex on the first date but times are changing and some of the dating rules should not even be applicable, having sex on the first date should cause little or no uproar at all. It bothers me why sexual liberated females would subject themselves to fear of judgement by their partner following sex on the first date. He likes you enough to ask you out on a date and at a point in his mind he would have considered a million ways to bend you...