3 Different Ways People Handle Break-Ups

So I wanted to do a vlog about this, but laziness won't allow me. 



Let's review 3 kinds of people after a breakup. This isn't for those who breakup to makeup weekly, it's for people who genuinely can't make things work anymore and decide to go their separate ways. 

The Person In Search of Rebound 



 "nothing so easy as catching a heart on the rebound" - Mary Russell Mitford

This is the most annoying one and it doesn't always end well. The person immediately finds comfort in other men/ women AKA using one person to get over another. I don't like the idea because after a breakup you are hurt, needy and you need to be alone 

Very rarely, some of them find love from one of their rebounds and they live happily ever after. 



The Stalker 


What's he/she tweeting, where did they go, who are they spending time with, who's picture did they like. How are they engaged ? Does this mean he/she was cheating ? Yes ! You are just stalkers if it ended move on please, don't start stalking the person.

The Crier 


It's okay to cry after a breakup and just keep it moving. When there's a problem is when you cry daily, weekly and monthly till you meet someone new. And it's very unattractive , but if that's how you deal with a breakup - so be it.

And don't think I excluded you people who still sleep with your ex after a break up, I'm looking at all of you. 

Well, I'm not gonna lie to you - I'm a crier. 

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