Ghosting Your Way out of a Bad Relationship

Or could be a good one, which ever way if you plan to leave a relationship and you don't exactly want to break up verbally or with a text, may I suggest some actions?


Ghosting 101

Avoid Calls

 Just stop picking up, Taylor swift did this to John Mayer and she even wrote a song about it. Just stop taking calls and don't explain yourself and make sure you don't change your number , so when it's time to block their calls they know it's real.

Stop replying texts! 

 Don't make it look too sudden, just stop messaging first if you usually do that and when they text spend forever to reply and give one word replies or conversation killers "Lol, Aii, Okay, K " .

 Stop cute social media habits 

 We can't deny now that we communicate with use of social media.Some people go all out with posting pictures of bae every week for "MCM, WCW". Stopping that will be a great idea and if you constantly send appreciation tweets that has to stop as well. And lastly do you make snaps in your underwear and thirst trap bae? that's stopping as well.

Start Blocking 

Block first on Twitter, Instagram and Snapchat, if they confront you via Whatsapp or Bbm get them off the list as well and your message is passed across.


If they know where you stay and work, and come there deny all allegations and promise to give them a call and then don't!!!!
How to ghost break up.

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