Betty's Weekly Banter: Taking Your Friends to Your Bakery


I promised a lot of guest writers!! Here is my first piece from Betty, she gets upset about things and when she does she punctuates away! This is her weekly feature on things that linger through her mind.

My friends and I were conversing one day, then the issue of introducing your friends to the boy/guy you are feeling came up; feeling here means considering the guy to be your potential bae.

Now the main issue here is, is that really a wise move or a stupid move on the girls part?  Should a girl introduce her friends to her guy AKA taking your friends to your bakery..?

From my own perspective I would never advise any girl to introduce her friends to any guy she hasn't really established anything serious with. Because guys these days have no damn chill, next thing you find out he's already moving to one of your friends and then you ask him why? He tells you because there's really nothing going on with you guys. Now you become the stupid person and start regretting your actions.

On the other part you might loose your relationship with your friend and she might eventually agree to sleep with your guy or what not. Now who's at fault ? You, Your friend that betrayed your trust, or the guy that got no chill?


The answer is you!!!! Girls don't be stupid, please don't even make the mistakes of introducing your friends to potential bae. Till next time on the blog!! 


Betty is on twitter & Instagram - @BettyBhakins

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